do you tell everything in your blog?
Monday, July 13, 2009
Bonjour!
My blog has been published since 2005.
I been in some controversial issues.
Pag puno daw ng bunga ang mangga, binabato talaga.
Okey lang, but then, if getting over the limits, I have to give back yung binato nila.
That is what happened a few days ago in my post: Im Hired Sir?
Emails came, some pleasant, some not. Some encouraging, some still in the idea of:
" I told you so. But you didnt listen."
Some even suggested I should explain, because the readers have the right to know why I called the applying filipina.
My take on this:
Do I have to tell everything?
What if they use it against me, will somebody out there would save me?
No!
I will be on my own.
No one would defend me, (why should they)?
One or two would even say:
" Its your hard cheese mate, you should have been discreet!"
See?
One email accused me of lying. I was sacked daw, I didnt resigned.
Do I need to justify that?
Moreover, we need to consider whether the person asking for information is entitled to know it all.
If someone asked me why I resigned.
Do I have to give a complete detailed informations in my blog why I resigned,or ...why I call the applying filipina?
No.
Why?
Because no one has the right to such informations,
I can blog it,
But I I am not under obligation to provide the reasons why.
Of course, even in this case, it would have been wrong for me to tell a lie.
It is better left unsaid, or the minimum.
Even my employer do not have the right to know the reason, I just go, give her a month notice and thats legal.
Now, if she really need to know, I can provide the minimum, without telling a lie.
God laws in the Bible said, we must speak the truth to one another.
Okey ako dyan, Im sure kayo rin.
This commands however does not mean that we have to tell everything what the person wants (or need)to know.
We must tell the truth to those who are entitled to know, but to those who are not entitled to, we may be evasive.
I remember a slogan, that in America, "the people has the right to know." by news/media.
For me, not all.
What if lurkers will use the informations to attack the State?
Individuals who have wicked intent may have no right to know certain things.
In blogworld, we dont know who read our blogs.
I never disclosed the full truth, especially when revealing the facts that could bring unnecessary harm to myself.
I believe you would do the same.
Still I do not lie. Instead, I chose not to say anything or divert the topic in another direction.
Safe escape, hehe.
Lies, cannot stand the test of time.
A tongue that utters falsehood may deceive for a while, but untruth does not prevail in the long term.
There are always consequences on what we all do.
I experienced "nose bleed "on this topic, if there are still some grammar errors, please let me know.
Hopefully, I m clear on the issue and we can move on...
My blog has been published since 2005.
I been in some controversial issues.
Pag puno daw ng bunga ang mangga, binabato talaga.
Okey lang, but then, if getting over the limits, I have to give back yung binato nila.
That is what happened a few days ago in my post: Im Hired Sir?
Emails came, some pleasant, some not. Some encouraging, some still in the idea of:
" I told you so. But you didnt listen."
Some even suggested I should explain, because the readers have the right to know why I called the applying filipina.
My take on this:
Do I have to tell everything?
What if they use it against me, will somebody out there would save me?
No!
I will be on my own.
No one would defend me, (why should they)?
One or two would even say:
" Its your hard cheese mate, you should have been discreet!"
See?
One email accused me of lying. I was sacked daw, I didnt resigned.
Do I need to justify that?
Moreover, we need to consider whether the person asking for information is entitled to know it all.
If someone asked me why I resigned.
Do I have to give a complete detailed informations in my blog why I resigned,or ...why I call the applying filipina?
No.
Why?
Because no one has the right to such informations,
I can blog it,
But I I am not under obligation to provide the reasons why.
Of course, even in this case, it would have been wrong for me to tell a lie.
It is better left unsaid, or the minimum.
Even my employer do not have the right to know the reason, I just go, give her a month notice and thats legal.
Now, if she really need to know, I can provide the minimum, without telling a lie.
God laws in the Bible said, we must speak the truth to one another.
Okey ako dyan, Im sure kayo rin.
This commands however does not mean that we have to tell everything what the person wants (or need)to know.
We must tell the truth to those who are entitled to know, but to those who are not entitled to, we may be evasive.
I remember a slogan, that in America, "the people has the right to know." by news/media.
For me, not all.
What if lurkers will use the informations to attack the State?
Individuals who have wicked intent may have no right to know certain things.
In blogworld, we dont know who read our blogs.
I never disclosed the full truth, especially when revealing the facts that could bring unnecessary harm to myself.
I believe you would do the same.
Still I do not lie. Instead, I chose not to say anything or divert the topic in another direction.
Safe escape, hehe.
Lies, cannot stand the test of time.
A tongue that utters falsehood may deceive for a while, but untruth does not prevail in the long term.
There are always consequences on what we all do.
I experienced "nose bleed "on this topic, if there are still some grammar errors, please let me know.
Hopefully, I m clear on the issue and we can move on...
Labels: bloglife
posted by Francesca at 11:54 PM, | 
18 Comments:
France we can't please every one, kaya hayaan na lang yong walang magawa, huwag kang mag papa-apekto ika nga.
Continue bloggings, kaabang-abang po your every post, at least we have an idea of what's going on in that part of the world...
Keep going sis...
Cheer-up!
Continue bloggings, kaabang-abang po your every post, at least we have an idea of what's going on in that part of the world...
Keep going sis...
Cheer-up!
mama..para sa akin .. "you don't have to explain anything to anybody" as long as wala kang ginawang masama. we are answerable only to ONE and only He knows the truth...kaya .. keber.. keep on blogging! :D
Ako ang muntik nang magka-nosebleed nang basahin ko yung comments sa post mo...
:-P
Let it go na, hinga na lang nang malalim.
You cannot please everyone.
To answer the title of this post though: No I don't put everything in my posts. I used to but I realised I'm jeopardising my professional life. I might already be too late on that
:-D as in being no longer anonymous.
BUT when I am talking about certain topics say giving an opinion, para kong may konsensya na nagdi-dictate minsan to explain myself. I feel obligated to do it so my views won't be taken out of context.
I agree with you though, it can be taxing, lalo if we're so busy that writing just 50 words is already luxury.
You BETTER keep blogging and let nothing deter you. Ito na nga lang ang release natin, papaapekto ka pa di ba?
:-P
Let it go na, hinga na lang nang malalim.
You cannot please everyone.
To answer the title of this post though: No I don't put everything in my posts. I used to but I realised I'm jeopardising my professional life. I might already be too late on that
:-D as in being no longer anonymous.
BUT when I am talking about certain topics say giving an opinion, para kong may konsensya na nagdi-dictate minsan to explain myself. I feel obligated to do it so my views won't be taken out of context.
I agree with you though, it can be taxing, lalo if we're so busy that writing just 50 words is already luxury.
You BETTER keep blogging and let nothing deter you. Ito na nga lang ang release natin, papaapekto ka pa di ba?
salamat piping mambabasa.Pag na film na to, libre movie pass ka, haha.Pero pakilala k n muna.
On llarena, i read in one blogger ' site
"Our own heart, and not other men's opinion, forms our true honor.
Opo, wag tayo papa apekto.
aleth, korek, we are all accountable to a Higher Judge.Musta na?
AUEE, hirap kaya mag maintain ng blog, but im doing this for own pleasure and venting.
Kung wala ako blog, baka naloka na ako sa dami ko gustong ikwentong kakikayan, hehehehe.
Sige move on n tayo.
We are adults pa naman.
Soon a new post, pki abangan po.
Kaya tuloy ang blogging, despite persecutions, hahaha.
On llarena, i read in one blogger ' site
"Our own heart, and not other men's opinion, forms our true honor.
Opo, wag tayo papa apekto.
aleth, korek, we are all accountable to a Higher Judge.Musta na?
AUEE, hirap kaya mag maintain ng blog, but im doing this for own pleasure and venting.
Kung wala ako blog, baka naloka na ako sa dami ko gustong ikwentong kakikayan, hehehehe.
Sige move on n tayo.
We are adults pa naman.
Soon a new post, pki abangan po.
Kaya tuloy ang blogging, despite persecutions, hahaha.
free reading na nga gusto pang maghalukay?? ignore those idiots Ate France wala lang magawang matino iyon.Happy Wednesday.
you should be thankful francesa dahil maraming nagbabasa ng blog mo. it shows lang na maraming natutuwa sa blog mo.nakakatuwa naman talaga ang mga kuwento mo eh, slice of life ng isang filipina sa ibang bansa. kaya nga nakaka-relate sila. pero,in my humble opinion, isa lang ang napupuna ko sa yo. enjoy ka sa mga comments na positive. pero may mga sinusulat ka na offending sa readers mo, and that's why they react. not to bash you, but only to give you a piece of their mind. sa totoo lang, you are under no obligation to disclose anything na personal, you volunteer those stories. i don't think anyone would care if you don't tell us what butler's real name is. what matters is your story and your point of view. suggestion ko lang sa yo, take criticisms with an open mind, not with a narrow one. if you notice, sa comments ka sumasablay dahil pinapatulan mo ang comments in a negative way. you bring that to yourself. pero, if you take in a more gracious and humble way, i don't think magkakaroon ka ng maraming kaalitan. pero day, bongga ka, daming pumapansin sa yo. yun lang po, sana magmuni-muni ka rin bago ka sumagot.
dami mo namang sinabi. it only boils down to one thing---be humble.
to rosse...duh, nagbasa ka ba ng comments sa isang post niya. ang masasabi ko lang, panay matatalino at maayos ang pagkakasabi nila kay francesca, at ikaw siguro yung idiot na magko-comment para lang may masabi.
sus, some people...
to rosse...duh, nagbasa ka ba ng comments sa isang post niya. ang masasabi ko lang, panay matatalino at maayos ang pagkakasabi nila kay francesca, at ikaw siguro yung idiot na magko-comment para lang may masabi.
sus, some people...
Anonymous - natamaan ka ba? I do read all the comments posted on this site. For your info i don't leave comments just so i can say something its because i want to LEAVE COMMENTS. Based on your words “panay matatalino at maayos” I can see that you are a person that like to get jealous and like comparing yourself with others((just like typical Filipina)).That's not good. And why are you so coward??? Anonymous ??? common! get a life if you have one will you?
Duh, bakit ako matatamaan Rosy? I'm not hiding behind anonymous, but I don't think it's important anyway who I am. I am one of those who admire bloggers like Francesca, but only when she is in the right perspective. Otherwise, if I think she's way out of line, like many others do, in her other blogpost, then I'll tell her.The problem with people of your school of thought, is you never address the issue in the objective sense. Panay kayo offensive. Take note, I didn't say defensive, kasi you are the first ones who give constructive criticism a bad name. Kesyo ba nag react sa sinabi ni Francesca idiot na? I cringe at the thought...So, are you her minion too? It doesn't matter anyway. Feeling ko lang, kahit anong ayos ang explanation ng ibang tao, kapag sarado ang utak ng iba, it's a lose-lose situation. So, enough said.
Hi,thanks for droping by my blog. I really dont post often kasi medyo tamad na ako and also when i write i must be inspired at depende din sa mood ko..
Sorry also about not leaving so much comments on your controversial blog.I´m a good observer and i dont like to judge people but....
Who cares what the others think about you?? Its your blog,write as you please and ignore or learn from the cons & enjoy the pros na lang.
Sorry also about not leaving so much comments on your controversial blog.I´m a good observer and i dont like to judge people but....
Who cares what the others think about you?? Its your blog,write as you please and ignore or learn from the cons & enjoy the pros na lang.
S-excuse me ha makadawdaw na... I'm not going to defend Francesca, she's managing that very well.
Anonymous, kung sino ka man... why don't you get a life? Go elsewhere & stop pestering this blog?
You're obviously not happy here & this blog brings out the worst in you. It will do you and the rest of the citizens in Francesca's blog, a world of good if you just go away, preferably quietly.
Everyone's entitled to their opinions & you've made your point - repeatedly. That's enough.
Don't take this the wrong way, but you have the choice not to come back. It's masochistic (of you) to want to read this blog again & react.
Anonymous, kung sino ka man... why don't you get a life? Go elsewhere & stop pestering this blog?
You're obviously not happy here & this blog brings out the worst in you. It will do you and the rest of the citizens in Francesca's blog, a world of good if you just go away, preferably quietly.
Everyone's entitled to their opinions & you've made your point - repeatedly. That's enough.
Don't take this the wrong way, but you have the choice not to come back. It's masochistic (of you) to want to read this blog again & react.
girls, ayoko nag aaway kayo sa bahay ko.
Baka me mga email kayo, dun na lang kaya kayo mag "banatan", lol.
please lang.kung pwede lang. S'il vous plait, por pabor. If you may.
One suggested via email, i block ko na lang daw si "clone" para hindi na maka comment,
kaya lang, gusto ko mga comments niya, pam pa controversial sa blog ko, ahihihiii.
Hi clone, wagay wagay laang me....
Auee, aura, rosse i might say, thanks for the visit.
Hanggang dyan muna comment ko, para neutral (kuno) ako, hihihi.
Ps, abangan nyo po pala, may malaking eskandalong mangyayari dito sa blog ko.
Date, July 28 post.
Lapit na.
Punta po kayo ha?
Ang makasagot ng tamang hula,sa eskandalong yun, ipapadala ko ang old Prada celphone ko with charger, touchpad.
Working siya, gamit ko until today, kasi nakabili na ako ng bago.
Totoo yan. I dont lie.
Email me yung sagot and address nyo to send the celphone. CONTEST is open to all.Blogger or not.
Baka me mga email kayo, dun na lang kaya kayo mag "banatan", lol.
please lang.kung pwede lang. S'il vous plait, por pabor. If you may.
One suggested via email, i block ko na lang daw si "clone" para hindi na maka comment,
kaya lang, gusto ko mga comments niya, pam pa controversial sa blog ko, ahihihiii.
Hi clone, wagay wagay laang me....
Auee, aura, rosse i might say, thanks for the visit.
Hanggang dyan muna comment ko, para neutral (kuno) ako, hihihi.
Ps, abangan nyo po pala, may malaking eskandalong mangyayari dito sa blog ko.
Date, July 28 post.
Lapit na.
Punta po kayo ha?
Ang makasagot ng tamang hula,sa eskandalong yun, ipapadala ko ang old Prada celphone ko with charger, touchpad.
Working siya, gamit ko until today, kasi nakabili na ako ng bago.
Totoo yan. I dont lie.
Email me yung sagot and address nyo to send the celphone. CONTEST is open to all.Blogger or not.
sali ko dyan hahaha!
My answer is no. We don't need to tell everything in our blog.
But if the question is: do we have to be honest in our blog?, my answer is all the time.
If we can't be honest about an issue (especially kung tungkol sa personal na buhay natin), we shouldn't blog about it. We should keep it na lang to ourselves.
We have responsibilities as bloggers: to let others learn from the narratives of our experience.
Dun sa isinulat mong I'm Hired, Sir?, I honestly thought you became unnecessarily nosey (and a bit nasty) for calling the applicant and pretending to be the boss. It was wrong and uncalled for. Especially because kabayan natin yun. At gaya rin nga ng comment ko sa post mo before: you should help her get a job. We should actually help each other -- tayong magkakabayan -- especially because we're away from our families.
But if the question is: do we have to be honest in our blog?, my answer is all the time.
If we can't be honest about an issue (especially kung tungkol sa personal na buhay natin), we shouldn't blog about it. We should keep it na lang to ourselves.
We have responsibilities as bloggers: to let others learn from the narratives of our experience.
Dun sa isinulat mong I'm Hired, Sir?, I honestly thought you became unnecessarily nosey (and a bit nasty) for calling the applicant and pretending to be the boss. It was wrong and uncalled for. Especially because kabayan natin yun. At gaya rin nga ng comment ko sa post mo before: you should help her get a job. We should actually help each other -- tayong magkakabayan -- especially because we're away from our families.
AUEE sige, i will post blog the contest, ay ang saya saya if kasali lahat, hehe.
NEBZ, korek.
Yung sa applying filipina, I already discussed with her, na my Boss was still on holidays and will soon make calls for interview.
Parang hindi siya makuha kasi she doesnt know how to cook and serve. Cleaning lang daw siya sabi niya and little cooking pero not fantastic.
I promised her, I will call her to give some in the net, (hindi din siya marunong sa internet)even daw baby sitting. She is living also in Nice and even invited me for birthday party, haha.
Eh hindi naman ako nag aatend nag birthday, so I thanked her na lng.
I cannot promised the best for her but I will try.
Isang coffeemate ko pala nag sabi sa kanya.Yung envelope niya, murdered pa (wrong spelling) pa ang office ng madame pero nakarating sulat niya, haha.
Dont worry nebz, silly thing yung pagtawag ko, but there's a context into it, why I called.
Di nga lang pwede i blogpost, akin na lng yun.
basta oks na kami nun, kaya wala na sana magalit.
May pakontest ako, sali kayo ha?
NEBZ, korek.
Yung sa applying filipina, I already discussed with her, na my Boss was still on holidays and will soon make calls for interview.
Parang hindi siya makuha kasi she doesnt know how to cook and serve. Cleaning lang daw siya sabi niya and little cooking pero not fantastic.
I promised her, I will call her to give some in the net, (hindi din siya marunong sa internet)even daw baby sitting. She is living also in Nice and even invited me for birthday party, haha.
Eh hindi naman ako nag aatend nag birthday, so I thanked her na lng.
I cannot promised the best for her but I will try.
Isang coffeemate ko pala nag sabi sa kanya.Yung envelope niya, murdered pa (wrong spelling) pa ang office ng madame pero nakarating sulat niya, haha.
Dont worry nebz, silly thing yung pagtawag ko, but there's a context into it, why I called.
Di nga lang pwede i blogpost, akin na lng yun.
basta oks na kami nun, kaya wala na sana magalit.
May pakontest ako, sali kayo ha?
amy,sa lahat ng post mo iyan ang gusto ko.. para happy tayong mga kababayan natin na
nagtutulongan... non nasa tokyo pa ako maraming akong natulongan mga over stay.. kapag me tinatapon na gamit sa pag hohouse cleaning ko gaya ng tv, ref or cassete or anuman bagay na need nila
hinihimgi ko sa boss ko at dinadala ko sa kanila.pag need nila ng room help ko rin sila sa paghanap..ganon lang para lahat tayo masaya ..From meng
nagtutulongan... non nasa tokyo pa ako maraming akong natulongan mga over stay.. kapag me tinatapon na gamit sa pag hohouse cleaning ko gaya ng tv, ref or cassete or anuman bagay na need nila
hinihimgi ko sa boss ko at dinadala ko sa kanila.pag need nila ng room help ko rin sila sa paghanap..ganon lang para lahat tayo masaya ..From meng
Cesca kahit na uno pa man ang sabihin nila. This is your domain and your are the queen of your kingdom. Para yan bahay mo kahit anong ipintura mo dyan wala silang pakialam. but they have the freedom to speech.
Nevertheless if there are reactions, good or bad, they love to read your post. Mahirap pag walang nagkokomento. Ibig sabihin walang nagbabasa ng blog mo! diba!
Nevertheless if there are reactions, good or bad, they love to read your post. Mahirap pag walang nagkokomento. Ibig sabihin walang nagbabasa ng blog mo! diba!
ayan, nag comment ako for the first time after reading your blog for almost three years bilang piping mambabasa