The Umbrella part 2
Friday, June 24, 2005
I am very happy of the decisions made by my readers on the umbrella story.
The umbrella is an illustration of how we decides in a situation.
We do or we dont.
Here are the decisions of my readers that I summarize. I find them very good and really well weighed(or some didnt even weighed it, they know what to do instantly.)
Talhey said: I would go back for it, and take it.
Anonymous said: I will take it ,besides , its not mine.
Debbie wanted to weigh the cost , the time and the risks.
Jing would take it as she prioritize the importance of ownership of the umbrella.
Funky Momma would take it quick, or else she would regret herself for not doing it, maybe in her life( like I should have done it, damn!)
Analyse like Debbie, look at the posibilities of the options if she (the lady will go down to get the umbrella.)
Kuiipo mentioned the trust. She is not bothered the long wait for next train.
Okey, good answers. Meaning, my readers are all witty! Felicitations!
Lets take the umbrella as a decision in life.
A filipina is married in Philippines. She got a boyfriend in Monaco , happened to be married also to a rich wife ,a resident of Monaco. The husband is also but so so only in compare to the wife.The couple has been married for 20 years.No children, the wife is 65, the husband is 45.
The filipina , 45 is Five years married,in Phils , got 4 children AGE 20, 19, 18 and 9 (3 girls, and a boy). The filipino husband(who is in Phils) is not working.Palamon ni Filipina. Five years seperated,(3days after they got married she went to France,they were live in before) no see each other, as filipina cannot go home, the husband is from time to time goes with other women but no illegitimate child.
I suggest to her to take an annulment.It avoids her to commit adultery .
She said,my bf is married, he cant file divorce ,the wife is old, he cant leave her.
Whats the use of the annulment?
Still take an annulment, One day, you'll never know in one second he is free. When he is free, then you file the annulment, the time you file, it took a year to be granted, if lucky.
I suggest this(annulment) to have her bf move also. If they really want to be together, they should plan something, shouldnt they? Whats the bf doing with her?
( just asking...)
No, the filipina do not want to. She didnt take the umbrella.She stayed nicely to the train (her bf). As bahala na.
Did she decides the best?
Once again, here are your answers to the story of umbrella.
Talhey said: I would go back for it, and take it.
Anonymous said: I will take it ,besides , its not mine.
Debbie wanted to weigh the cost , the time and the risks.
Jing would take it as she prioritize the importance of ownership of the umbrella.
Funky Momma would take it quick, or else she would regret herself for not doing it, maybe in her life( like I should have done it, damn!)
Analyse like Debbie, look at the posibilities of the options if she (the lady will go down to get the umbrella.)
Kuiipo mentioned the trust. She is not bothered the long wait for next train.
Once again, I appreciate your posts, it is very interesting to know I have wonderful readers.
what could we advice to a situation like this. Is there anything best so far for her?
The umbrella is an illustration of how we decides in a situation.
We do or we dont.
Here are the decisions of my readers that I summarize. I find them very good and really well weighed(or some didnt even weighed it, they know what to do instantly.)
Talhey said: I would go back for it, and take it.
Anonymous said: I will take it ,besides , its not mine.
Debbie wanted to weigh the cost , the time and the risks.
Jing would take it as she prioritize the importance of ownership of the umbrella.
Funky Momma would take it quick, or else she would regret herself for not doing it, maybe in her life( like I should have done it, damn!)
Analyse like Debbie, look at the posibilities of the options if she (the lady will go down to get the umbrella.)
Kuiipo mentioned the trust. She is not bothered the long wait for next train.
Okey, good answers. Meaning, my readers are all witty! Felicitations!
Lets take the umbrella as a decision in life.
A filipina is married in Philippines. She got a boyfriend in Monaco , happened to be married also to a rich wife ,a resident of Monaco. The husband is also but so so only in compare to the wife.The couple has been married for 20 years.No children, the wife is 65, the husband is 45.
The filipina , 45 is Five years married,in Phils , got 4 children AGE 20, 19, 18 and 9 (3 girls, and a boy). The filipino husband(who is in Phils) is not working.Palamon ni Filipina. Five years seperated,(3days after they got married she went to France,they were live in before) no see each other, as filipina cannot go home, the husband is from time to time goes with other women but no illegitimate child.
I suggest to her to take an annulment.It avoids her to commit adultery .
She said,my bf is married, he cant file divorce ,the wife is old, he cant leave her.
Whats the use of the annulment?
Still take an annulment, One day, you'll never know in one second he is free. When he is free, then you file the annulment, the time you file, it took a year to be granted, if lucky.
I suggest this(annulment) to have her bf move also. If they really want to be together, they should plan something, shouldnt they? Whats the bf doing with her?
( just asking...)
No, the filipina do not want to. She didnt take the umbrella.She stayed nicely to the train (her bf). As bahala na.
Did she decides the best?
Once again, here are your answers to the story of umbrella.
Talhey said: I would go back for it, and take it.
Anonymous said: I will take it ,besides , its not mine.
Debbie wanted to weigh the cost , the time and the risks.
Jing would take it as she prioritize the importance of ownership of the umbrella.
Funky Momma would take it quick, or else she would regret herself for not doing it, maybe in her life( like I should have done it, damn!)
Analyse like Debbie, look at the posibilities of the options if she (the lady will go down to get the umbrella.)
Kuiipo mentioned the trust. She is not bothered the long wait for next train.
Once again, I appreciate your posts, it is very interesting to know I have wonderful readers.
what could we advice to a situation like this. Is there anything best so far for her?
posted by Francesca at 7:36 PM, | 
10 Comments:
saka... the boss still decides!!! something lend should be given back to the owner :-P... i believe hehehe!!!
Sorry,have to do this anonymously-I don't have a blogger accnt.
In regards to the Filipina and BF, I'm afraid this is a lot heavier issue than the umbrella but either way it still shows the true character of a person.
In regards to the Filipina and BF, I'm afraid this is a lot heavier issue than the umbrella but either way it still shows the true character of a person.
well am afraid I spent an evening about this umbrella issue and Francescas friend.
No comment on this matter on this blog as we have already discussed this.. of course I would grab the umbrella there is always the next train!
My flight is early morning THANK YOU FOR ALL THE FUN
No comment on this matter on this blog as we have already discussed this.. of course I would grab the umbrella there is always the next train!
My flight is early morning THANK YOU FOR ALL THE FUN
she should plan ahead. If the wife died (which i dont pray that she will now) what would she do, what the bf will do?
The bf if he help her it will be a proof that he really love her. If not, then she is only taken for a ride. When she reach 65 before she decides to be free, then she is not that young anymore, the bf will look for someone else.
I would go for the "she should start for her annulment."
The bf if he help her it will be a proof that he really love her. If not, then she is only taken for a ride. When she reach 65 before she decides to be free, then she is not that young anymore, the bf will look for someone else.
I would go for the "she should start for her annulment."
Readers, totoo yan. Ang umbrella is only a simple decision and the annulment is a heavy one.
Even to marry a foriegner is as heavy.
To leave the foreigner husband is as heavy decision too.
What else?
To leave a work that is easy and enjoyable is a heavy decision.
To go to France is heavy decision too.They dont speak english here!how one can cope up?
Lots!
Everytime you decide on something, pls think of my umbrella story.
Wink!
Even to marry a foriegner is as heavy.
To leave the foreigner husband is as heavy decision too.
What else?
To leave a work that is easy and enjoyable is a heavy decision.
To go to France is heavy decision too.They dont speak english here!how one can cope up?
Lots!
Everytime you decide on something, pls think of my umbrella story.
Wink!
To anonymous,
You can put your name (if you like) just click (autres, others in english, then type your name)
Para kilalanin kita, hehe.
Gaya michel, lagay niya michel sa autres.
Welcome sa blog ko, ganda sagot mo rin, baka lawyer ka ha?
You can put your name (if you like) just click (autres, others in english, then type your name)
Para kilalanin kita, hehe.
Gaya michel, lagay niya michel sa autres.
Welcome sa blog ko, ganda sagot mo rin, baka lawyer ka ha?
Kamot ulo, "I don't get it".
Hello, I'm the anonymous I didn't know I can put my name there, thanks for letting me know, learn something new everyday.
BTW, I'm not a lawyer. Not that I have anything against lawyers. Heaven knows we all make fun of them until we need one, then it's not so funny anymore.
I have been reading your blog for quite awhile now but was lazy to put comments. I like your stories, they're unpretentious, just matter-of-fact kind of stories and they're funny.
BTW, I'm not a lawyer. Not that I have anything against lawyers. Heaven knows we all make fun of them until we need one, then it's not so funny anymore.
I have been reading your blog for quite awhile now but was lazy to put comments. I like your stories, they're unpretentious, just matter-of-fact kind of stories and they're funny.
aba at playing psychologist ka na rin ngayon ha...
ill go for annulment with or without the french bf, to settle her life once and for all di ba..
ill go for annulment with or without the french bf, to settle her life once and for all di ba..
as in kwela to!!!
In any case, if all efforts to get it back has been futile, there are still lots of umbrellas to purchase, if i i have to buy the same quality and same brand, the market is open for my shopping. Like in the situation, MADATUNG AKO (kunyari)!!!
Still, I would go for value and quality and ownership!!! ;-D
as in naaliw ako dito ha!!!