Why divorce?
Sunday, February 13, 2005
Alot of people decided it. Mas mahaba raw ang rate of divorce ng mixed marriages.
Some reasons are:
cant cope up the migration.Ibang lahi, lenguahe, cultura.
cant stand nosy mother inlaws
cant stand sunday lunches with bunch of bananas sort of family
boredome,corporate wife syndrome that cant cope up to stay at home, sacrificing her carreer back home and be a homebody to take care of the house and baby.
I like what Mia said.
No babies.
Ayaw niya sigawan ang anak niya ng: Bweset, tuloy stuck up ako sa bahay dahil sa iyo!
Sarap nga naman magtravel.
Pareho kami, ayoko sakay ng eroplano, may tulak na stroller, then andar na ang plane, ito na si atungal!
Also I dont think Michel will help me with the bottle feeding in the wee hours of the night.
Maglalagay yan ng earplugs niya and tatalikod.
Women with kids end up doing all in the house, with Dad just an occasional presence.
Maiinis si babae, at hahanap ng easy way out, fling, then divorce.
8millions ang tourist sa France every year, and mounting.
And casual relationships are easily made.
Lalo na summer, dami happenings!
One testimony from lawyer is that autumn affairs are blooming, divorce petitions are increasing, due to one spouse has summer adventures that one spouse seeks an end to the union.
Especially when husband wala lagi and wife alone, gets lonely, imbitation nga naman yan to do some hanky panky, di ba?
Mag bilad lang sa beach on the nude, may papansin talaga.
Pano ang arrangement pag divorce na?
Pag contested divorce, kawawa ang respondent lalo na lalaki ang respondent, hehehe.
Bayad ng alimony si lalaki.
Or hindi mafinalized ang divorce.
Kaya nga nauso ang prenup.
Para wala habol any of them in case.
Sa French practice, andyan ang alimony(pension alimentaire).
Ito ay monthly expenses to be given to children for thier education health and keeping.
Also settlement for the wife para matapos na.
Pwede i request akin na ang bahay, sabi ng babae.
(Eh kung millions worth yon!)
Ayaw ni lalaki. Its normal!
But after all huh," you wronged me" rub in ni babae.
Bayad na lang si lalaki, kasi ang bagong kulukadidang eh bata at morena.
Half his age. Kayo man, di ba? Millions or young filipina?(oy sample lang ito ha, pwede rin tahitian or brazilian bah!)
Then finalised ng court ang agreement.
Kung may monthly pension pa si babae besides sa mga bata,
the amount monthly cant be modified.
Pwede i extend ang form of payments monthly, but di pwede bawasan ang amount.
Nagkaayos na na 10,000 euros monthly , tapos tatawad pa?
Ano yon isda sa palengke?
Kulang yon sa gym, shopping at lakwatsa ni babae.
Last note: Adultery is not considered ground for divorce, Everybody does it. Even the petitioner herself.hehehe
Ano, pasakal ka pa?
Eheste, pakasal pala.
Some reasons are:
cant cope up the migration.Ibang lahi, lenguahe, cultura.
cant stand nosy mother inlaws
cant stand sunday lunches with bunch of bananas sort of family
boredome,corporate wife syndrome that cant cope up to stay at home, sacrificing her carreer back home and be a homebody to take care of the house and baby.
I like what Mia said.
No babies.
Ayaw niya sigawan ang anak niya ng: Bweset, tuloy stuck up ako sa bahay dahil sa iyo!
Sarap nga naman magtravel.
Pareho kami, ayoko sakay ng eroplano, may tulak na stroller, then andar na ang plane, ito na si atungal!
Also I dont think Michel will help me with the bottle feeding in the wee hours of the night.
Maglalagay yan ng earplugs niya and tatalikod.
Women with kids end up doing all in the house, with Dad just an occasional presence.
Maiinis si babae, at hahanap ng easy way out, fling, then divorce.
8millions ang tourist sa France every year, and mounting.
And casual relationships are easily made.
Lalo na summer, dami happenings!
One testimony from lawyer is that autumn affairs are blooming, divorce petitions are increasing, due to one spouse has summer adventures that one spouse seeks an end to the union.
Especially when husband wala lagi and wife alone, gets lonely, imbitation nga naman yan to do some hanky panky, di ba?
Mag bilad lang sa beach on the nude, may papansin talaga.
Pano ang arrangement pag divorce na?
Pag contested divorce, kawawa ang respondent lalo na lalaki ang respondent, hehehe.
Bayad ng alimony si lalaki.
Or hindi mafinalized ang divorce.
Kaya nga nauso ang prenup.
Para wala habol any of them in case.
Sa French practice, andyan ang alimony(pension alimentaire).
Ito ay monthly expenses to be given to children for thier education health and keeping.
Also settlement for the wife para matapos na.
Pwede i request akin na ang bahay, sabi ng babae.
(Eh kung millions worth yon!)
Ayaw ni lalaki. Its normal!
But after all huh," you wronged me" rub in ni babae.
Bayad na lang si lalaki, kasi ang bagong kulukadidang eh bata at morena.
Half his age. Kayo man, di ba? Millions or young filipina?(oy sample lang ito ha, pwede rin tahitian or brazilian bah!)
Then finalised ng court ang agreement.
Kung may monthly pension pa si babae besides sa mga bata,
the amount monthly cant be modified.
Pwede i extend ang form of payments monthly, but di pwede bawasan ang amount.
Nagkaayos na na 10,000 euros monthly , tapos tatawad pa?
Ano yon isda sa palengke?
Kulang yon sa gym, shopping at lakwatsa ni babae.
Last note: Adultery is not considered ground for divorce, Everybody does it. Even the petitioner herself.hehehe
Ano, pasakal ka pa?
Eheste, pakasal pala.
posted by Francesca at 10:05 PM, | 
8 Comments:
Am trying to imagine MissT's carpet, cream haha not for kids.
June? pareho ta day...
I do admire those women with kids but I just cant imagine being so tied up with my own. Have little wings on my feet you know ;-)
June? pareho ta day...
I do admire those women with kids but I just cant imagine being so tied up with my own. Have little wings on my feet you know ;-)
Hi Francesca!
It's my first time to post here. Unlike you, MissT and Schatzli, I have 2 girls. And I'm paying the consequence of having them LOL (less travel, less shopping for my own self). Hehe, well, I'm happy and contented having them. Hubby is thoughtful enough to send me out of the house every other weekend. (watch movies with friends, go to pubs/parties, shop (sometimes with MissT) while he takes care of our girls and he's even the one who sends me to a Dutch class which is not necessary.
Pero sabi niya, I need some break and he wants me to grow. Cool! Why not?
But yeah, to make a relationship thrive, both partners have to exert effort. Prinsipyo ko, I would rather work out on this present relationship despite difficulties than begin a new one and start from scratch. ;-) Cuddles
It's my first time to post here. Unlike you, MissT and Schatzli, I have 2 girls. And I'm paying the consequence of having them LOL (less travel, less shopping for my own self). Hehe, well, I'm happy and contented having them. Hubby is thoughtful enough to send me out of the house every other weekend. (watch movies with friends, go to pubs/parties, shop (sometimes with MissT) while he takes care of our girls and he's even the one who sends me to a Dutch class which is not necessary.
Pero sabi niya, I need some break and he wants me to grow. Cool! Why not?
But yeah, to make a relationship thrive, both partners have to exert effort. Prinsipyo ko, I would rather work out on this present relationship despite difficulties than begin a new one and start from scratch. ;-) Cuddles
Cuddles:
As long as happy kayo ni hubby mo sa kids nyo, thats important. Kami ni MissT at Sha decided it together with husbands na wala anak. So alright na kami sa ganon.
Ang mahirap eh, ayaw ko ng anak at gusto ni husband, aba, gyera yan!
As long as both parties agree sa sitwasyon, it is the best.
But MissT, hehe, wawa naman sofa mo nyan.Mag uwi ka na lang ng pamalo!lol
As long as happy kayo ni hubby mo sa kids nyo, thats important. Kami ni MissT at Sha decided it together with husbands na wala anak. So alright na kami sa ganon.
Ang mahirap eh, ayaw ko ng anak at gusto ni husband, aba, gyera yan!
As long as both parties agree sa sitwasyon, it is the best.
But MissT, hehe, wawa naman sofa mo nyan.Mag uwi ka na lang ng pamalo!lol
Hi Francesca!
It's my first time here. I started reading all your blogs 2 days ago. Ngayon tapos ko na s'ya lahat. Time for me to write my comments.
Right now, I'm 4.5 mos pregnant (after more than four years of waiting). We actually spent money trying to have at least one kid. Mas frustrating kapag ganon. We stopped seeing the doctor. Surprised kami kasi kadarating lang namin dito sa Thailand. Dito lang pala kami makakabuo. During those 4 years na magkasama kami, madalas rin ang travel. Lagi akong kasama sa mga business trips ng husband ko. The first two years of our married life was spent in Beijing. Naka-hotel kami kahit sa Manila basta business trip. We enjoy each other's company (kahit maraming away). Pareho kaming mahilig sa adventure. Pero all those years parang may empty space pa rin sa aming buhay. We were always thinking about having a baby. Like when we went to Disneyland in LA or we bought our own house which is big for two persons, we just imagine our kid/s is enjoying the place.
Dapat talaga may mutual agreement ang mag-asawa before the they get married lalo na kung ayaw nilang magkaroon ng kids. In my own observation, kapag nag-asawa ang dalawang Filipinos in their early lives, it is because they wanted to have their own family (that is to have kid/s of their own). Most Chinese I know have different view in life. They wanted to earn more money and enjoy their lives as couple.
Reading your blogs inspires me to write my own. I also have several survival stories & bloopers to share. Living in mainland China is the far different from living in France or in Monaco. I think Chinese got their own definition of the word 'etiquette' but I enjoyed my stay there. Their culture is interesting. I'm more fitted in that kind of environment than in the 'land of the rich and famous'. ---I used to walk in the city wearing shorts, t-shirt & slippers (during summer). The police in Monaco might put in the jail if they see me like that. :))
Have a nice day!
Tisya
It's my first time here. I started reading all your blogs 2 days ago. Ngayon tapos ko na s'ya lahat. Time for me to write my comments.
Right now, I'm 4.5 mos pregnant (after more than four years of waiting). We actually spent money trying to have at least one kid. Mas frustrating kapag ganon. We stopped seeing the doctor. Surprised kami kasi kadarating lang namin dito sa Thailand. Dito lang pala kami makakabuo. During those 4 years na magkasama kami, madalas rin ang travel. Lagi akong kasama sa mga business trips ng husband ko. The first two years of our married life was spent in Beijing. Naka-hotel kami kahit sa Manila basta business trip. We enjoy each other's company (kahit maraming away). Pareho kaming mahilig sa adventure. Pero all those years parang may empty space pa rin sa aming buhay. We were always thinking about having a baby. Like when we went to Disneyland in LA or we bought our own house which is big for two persons, we just imagine our kid/s is enjoying the place.
Dapat talaga may mutual agreement ang mag-asawa before the they get married lalo na kung ayaw nilang magkaroon ng kids. In my own observation, kapag nag-asawa ang dalawang Filipinos in their early lives, it is because they wanted to have their own family (that is to have kid/s of their own). Most Chinese I know have different view in life. They wanted to earn more money and enjoy their lives as couple.
Reading your blogs inspires me to write my own. I also have several survival stories & bloopers to share. Living in mainland China is the far different from living in France or in Monaco. I think Chinese got their own definition of the word 'etiquette' but I enjoyed my stay there. Their culture is interesting. I'm more fitted in that kind of environment than in the 'land of the rich and famous'. ---I used to walk in the city wearing shorts, t-shirt & slippers (during summer). The police in Monaco might put in the jail if they see me like that. :))
Have a nice day!
Tisya
Hi again!
Can I add your page in my link list? I don't think I can go through the bloggers registration kapag walang link (ganon ba 'yon?).
Tisya
Can I add your page in my link list? I don't think I can go through the bloggers registration kapag walang link (ganon ba 'yon?).
Tisya
Tisya, oy welcome ka. go on, link mo ko okey lang. Oy, pag nag ka blog ka na, email mo sa akin, gusto ko rin alamin buhay ng mga chinese.
Congrats for being a Mom!Masarap din may baby, basta wala lang kokontrang asawa. Me and Michel got children from first marriages na kasi, so we decided na no kids na kami, we will just enjoy our time. Keep reading my blog please.
Congrats for being a Mom!Masarap din may baby, basta wala lang kokontrang asawa. Me and Michel got children from first marriages na kasi, so we decided na no kids na kami, we will just enjoy our time. Keep reading my blog please.
I cannot stand kids! I get crazy when they cry and throw things and poop and make wee-wee. I can't stand that! No amount of cuteness (complete with their smiles and dazzling eyes) can make me want a baby! I don't even want to hold a baby lol, di ako marunong baka mabali lang ang buto. I really have no mothers instinct.
Though at times, I give myself the benefit of the doubt, that is to consider a baby.... Kaso as time goes by, I am now reaching my 35th birthday in June, eh the more I felt so discouraged to have one. Especially when I see women with strollers in the streets, train, wherever, they are always busy with and for the kid.
I cannot stand kids! I get crazy when they cry and throw things and poop and make wee-wee. I can't stand that! No amount of cuteness (complete with their smiles and dazzling eyes) can make me want a baby! I don't even want to hold a baby lol, di ako marunong baka mabali lang ang buto. I really have no mothers instinct.
Saka with a kid you basically have no freedom. Your life is changed, your priority is your kids. I cannot give up this freedom. I don't want the heavy responsibility. I am glad that I have a choice and fortunate that Dutchman and I have the same mindset. Imagine if hindi? Baka iwanan ko sya lol!
In the coming weeks, dutchmans friend will be staying over the weekend with us. We are dreading the moment kasi they have 3 kids, ages: 5, 2 and a few months old baby. We are scared baka madumihan yung puti naming flat! Saka the carpet, naku po!
Like you, I love travelling... punta ako ng Madrid end of the month.