Francesca in France

I cannot understand how some of my Pinay friends keep the relationship with their Puti BF.
Puti tawag ko kasi merong british, french, italian , basta european, sama na don Kano.

My first marriage was not too bad!
The sad thing about it is:
Our courtship had been long on passion,
But short on planning!
Kaya disaster, nauwi sa annulment!

This time, with Michel, I make it sure,
we got a looong planning than passion only.

Four years, bago kami kinasal.
Although because of my legal impediment,
but then, I make it sure na I am wise in all the things I do before going to another relationship.
Especially marriage na ang paguusapan!

Mind you, he is not that perfect, but nearly! LOL
I am secured!Walang kaagaw!

Anyway, kaya ko nabangggit ito, kasi mga Pinay friends ko(dito sa Monaco)
ang BF, nila papalit palit?

Pinay 1 :
4 years with frenchman, no marriage, now bago ang bf, Pinoy na lang daw!
May asawa naman sa Pinas ang Pinoy.

Pinay 2 :
French nga BF niya,
They are married ,
But not to each other! LOL
Kahapon ko lang nalaman!
Minsan kasalubong pa ni Pinay si French bf kasama asawa di siya makakibo!
Sakit dibdib niya, but no can do!
Alam naman daw niya may asawa!

Pinay 3 :
four years na sila, very good, sila pa rin.
Pero di pwede pakasal, may asawa si Pinay sa Pinas!
Si Bf naman di pa tapos ang divorce kasi di pumayag si frenchwife na hindi mapunta ang house sa kanya!
Pending ang divorce finality.

Pinay4:
British ang bf, single, kaya lang walang trabaho!
Si Pinay bayad lahat!
Si Pinay may asawa sa Pinas!
Fifty na si Pinay!
Bah buti meron pa natisod?Di ba?
Pang kumot siguro in winter time! LOL
Pag summer, out he goes!

Minsan I think of how life can be complicated to some of my Pinay friends.

And all of them said na maligaya sila sa naging desisyon nila. Sana.
I wish them happiness, and of course peace of mind.

Mostly, sinasabi nila ok lang daw sa asawa nila na nasa Pinas.
Basta may sustento sila ng mga anak niya.
Pero masarap silang kasama, iba na yong kababayan, kakatuwa.
Lalo na luto nila ay pinoy foods talaga.
Meron pa sila Skyflakes!
Sinigang powder at gabi.
Or saging saba!
Di ko alam saan nila binibili?

On the whole, not all are having a good life here, emotionally speaking.
The homesickness strikes them too.
Lalo na some of them hindi makakauwi.
Walang papel.
Ten, fifteen years na rito!

Sorry, madrama ito, girls!
Feel ko lang mag reflect, hihihi!